Making the house sensory friendly

Croatian version

Are you among those lucky ones who have an empty basement which is not humid, perfectly convenient for a sensory room? I’m not! I live in an apartment. I do have a garage though, but it does not fit any of these criteria. It’s dirty, cluttered and humid. And it’s two floors down. Definitely not suitable for a sensory room. My parents have a basement, but it’s again humid, terribly cluttered and has a big freezer. Again, very unsuitable. Good news is, you don’t need a special room! One of the great things about sensory integration is that it makes you be very creative, it makes you think outside of the box. Children and parents I work with inspire me and are responsible for many of my ideas, games and tricks of the trade.

So, what can you do to make your small, often congested home sensory friendly? We should start thinking 3D! Use your wall, ceilings, floor, doors etc. Everything can be useful. First what you need to look at are your child’s needs and abilities. Are your child’s needs more proprioceptive, vestibular or perhaps visual? Having in mind all other senses, put a little extra of those your child needs the most. Also, please note that you don’t have to have these things in your living room the whole time and every day. You can change the setting as you wish, or per child’s needs. Have your child’s safety in mind at all times.

For proprioceptive:

  • Lay mats of different thickness and softness onto the floor (information coming from the joints)
  • Put some mats or safety sponges onto the walls (for children who like to run and bounce themselves off of the walls)
  • Have Pilates kind of balls in the space (child can roll on the ball on their stomachs or you can lightly massage them with the ball on their backs or squeeze them in between two balls, or have them jump on the Pilates ball while catching some other small objects)
  • Big cushions (take a duvet cover and fill it up with pillows, Styrofoam or small soft balls and have your child jump on it, cross over it, crawl on it, lay down on it etc.)
  • fill up the crib with small plastic balls to make a DIY ball pit.
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http://community.babycenter.com/post/a41331646/ball_pit_time_pic

For tacticle:

  • make tactile boards at home (they can be as simple as these squares below, or you can take it a higher level and make numbers and letters out of different materials, maybe even PECS cards in 3D!) and put them on the walls. If you have a bigger empty wall space, you can “dress” your wall into some fabric or some material.
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http://www.pinterest.com/genrescue/pecs-non-verbal-communication/
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http://www.specialneedstoys.com/can/discrimination/504-tactile-board.html
  • put different textiles, materials on the floor and keep your child barefoot if possible. You can have one corner of your room, or corner of your L-profile couch filled with cushions of different materials (soft, rough, spiky, woolen, furry, smooth) and a few cushions that look the same, but are of different weight and third category, same looking cushions filled differently – with beans, kitty sand (sterile), feathers, small stones, Styrofoam etc.)
  • even coloring and writing can be fun (the green cactus is a pen and if you are as creative as this little guy, you may even use the pot to drink the sparkling water from)

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  • Bath time: does your child like the water? If yes, in a bath tub or sprayed on him/her as a shower? Strong pressure or mild? You can use shaving foam to play in the bath, put on child’s face and body, put on the swimming ducks – also incorporate other tactile stimuli here (put some sugar or grains of salt into the foam and spread on child’s body – better if they do it themselves, put some food coloring into the foam for visual stimulus, get some other toys that are spiky, rough, silky etc.)
  • Oral: you can have your child wash their teeth and also brush the tongue, lips, gums around etc with a regular brush or for babies or from NUK. Also, use your fingers to massage the space around the mouth and cheeks. You can also massage child’s gums and tongue if they allow you. My newborn loves this along with a “wheels on the bus” song. Makes him smile a lot :)

For vestibular:

  • implement a swing in your house (some parents had a net installed above their king sized beds and had a child climb on it and jump or drop down onto the mattresses – please consider safety here! – same you can do with a swing. Also, you can attach a swing on your ceiling and put a rope on a side so you don’t have to take the swing down each time, but just tuck it in between the rope and the wall or just keep it aside. IKEA has one or two nice swings that I use on daily basis. You can have your child be on the swing in different positions such as sitting, on their stomachs, on their knees or standing and implement different activities while swinging: catching some items that look the same, but are of different weight (proprioceptive) or material (tactile)
  • you can have different objects that react when stepped on such as a balance board, or these balance pillows. Not only do they give some vestibular input, but they are spiky on their surfaces so play as a tactile input, too.
  • one of the mothers I worked with flipped her couch upside down and used it as a slide for her daughter. I used big tight pillows down the couch for my niece and nephew

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For visual:

  • practically, all of the materials and equipment listed above as ideas for proprioceptive, vestibular and tactile come in some color and shape. If your child is sensitive to visual stimuli, keep it simple. Also, don’t get many reflector lights into the space. For those who are on a hypo side, you may have these things in different colors, shapes and sizes.
  • get one of the colorful rotating reflectors

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  • if you implement the mats of different heights (and colors and textures) on your floor that I mentioned was good for the proprioceptive system, it is good for the visual, too.

Throughout the house: sometimes it is very hard to keep the kids sensory and otherwise happy when it is -30 degrees Celsius outside. Parks are not only unavailable due to the possible snow or cold, but at least here in Croatia it gets dark so fast (around 4pm) during the winter and for some unknown reason, parks are not equipped with the street lights. There’s something you can do indoors. Use your whole apartment or house, or at least a few rooms and a hallway, for this exercise: spread cushions, mats, tables, balance boards, balls etc. into a line of obstacles. If your child can follow instructions, you may give him a toy or a ball that they need to carry through the obstacles and put into a basket in the end (have some kind of a goal – may it be as simple as a kiss to mom). Some parts they should crawl on, crawl under, crawl through, some walk over, some jump through and so on. Here’s a visual:

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Push each other in a car
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Go through tunnels
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You may include your pets, too. If they are eager to participate :)
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Go through an oven opening in the children’s kitchen
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Your child has siblings? – involve them! Use each other as tunnels or obstacles to cross.
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Soldier crawl
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Getting an assignment done to go to the next obstacle
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crawl under the table
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in the end, have a goal and put a toy in the basket or bag on the door handle.

Put your creative hat on and have fun!

I am back! With a son! / Vratila sam se! Sa sinom!

Hello everybody,
It has been a while, but I came back with a gift – a son! And a new idea. I will be adding some common questions about pregnancy and child care right here, along with comments and discussions in the comments section below the each post. You are most welcome to give your input but have in mind that abusive messages will be deleted.
Thanks!

Pozdrav svima!

Prošlo je dosta vremena, ali vratila sam se, s poklončićem – svojim sinom. I novom idejom. Postavljat ću pitanja oko trudnoće i brige za dijete, zajedno s komentarima za diskusiju u dijelu za komentare ispod svakog posta. Svi ste dobrodošli da sudjelujete i date svoj komentar ili primjer, ali imajte na umu da će vrijeđajuće poruke biti obrisane.

Hvala!

Proprioception

Proprioception is our ability to know where our muscles and joints are in space and how they are moving. This is very important for the development of body awareness. Our proprioceptive sense cannot work in isolation, but requires constant input from our tactile and vestibular systems. Unorganized processing of proprioceptive input may be seen as someone who is clumsy, falls or stumbles frequently, is overly aggressive (e.g., tackles people), walks on toes, constantly chewing on food or objects, has difficulty motor planning, or is messy at mealtime. Someone who is unconsciously worried about where their body is on the chair or how they will walk around the table without bumping into it, will not be able to focus their attention on what is being said or what they are carrying.”  (Dana Nicholls, OTR/L, Peggy Syvertson CCC-SLP).
Does your child:

  • walk on their toes?
  • like to jump all the time?
  • laugh a lot when you press them with pillows or balls?
  • love deep massages?
  • love to walk on pebbles?

All of these questions are examples of activities where your child’s body gets a lot of proprioceptive input. Especially for children who are hyposensitive to this kind of input, these activities bring a lot of joy.


Disclaimer / Izjava

This blog is intended as another source of ideas for sensory play and a common place for parents to talk and discuss different topics. Though I do have professional education and work experience in this field, I do not take responsibility in reactions your children have to ideas proposed in this blog. Children are very different and what suits one child might not be beneficial to the other so please use your judgment while realizing these ideas with your children.

Thank you!

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Cilj ovog bloga je da pruži roditeljima ideje za senzornu igru i zajedničko mjesto za daljnju diskusiju. Iako sam obrazovana u ovom području i imam radno iskustvo, ne snosim odgovornost za reakcije vaše djece na ideje predložene u ovom blogu. Djeca su vrlo različita i ono što je dobro za jedno dijete možda neće biti primjereno za neko drugo dijete. Stoga Vas molim da koristite svoju prosudbu pri realizaciji ovih ideja.

Hvala!

Aktivnosti u shopping centru

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Najprije, kako izgleda promjena aktivnosti ili mjesta kod Vašeg djeteta, pogotovo u veliki, blješteći, glasni i napućeni trgovački centar? Potrči li Vaše dijete unutra ili se počne ritati i bacakati još u autu čim ste skrenuli na parkiralište od tog centra? Neka Vam Vaš odgovor bude polazište za ovo iskustvo.

Ako Vaše dijete ne voli ići po trgovačkim centrima, ne morate to izbjegavati. Učinite to postepeno prateći djetetove reakcije. Ako se Vaše dijete počne derati već na parkiralištu, neka vam onda to bude i cilj – sigurno parkiranje auta, ali ne i izlazak iz njega. Idući put probajte izaći iz auta, ali ne i otići u centar, možda svega do ulaznih vrata. Ono što je tu bitno je da uvijek kažete djetetu mirnim glasom (šapčući ako je dijete preosjetljivo na zvuk) koji je Vaš plan. Želite da Vaše dijete i dalje ima kontrolu nad situacijom koja mu se očito ne sviđa. Kada dijete uvidi da kontrolira situacijom, stvari će teći glađe. Ako im se čini da se situacija odvija prebrzo, da gube tu kontrolu postat će nervozni i možda će nastupiti tantrum i bacanje po podu. Dakle, samo glasno komentirajte svoj plan bez obzira koliko je Vaše dijete staro i bez obzira na to što možda mislite da Vas ono ne razumije; “sada ćemo se sparkirati ovdje lijevo i onda će mama ugasiti auto. Vidi, gasim! 1…2…3.. auto je ugašen”. Možete koristiti jednostavnije ili kraće rečenice ako je Vaše dijete manje ili ako je veće ili verbalno, možete unijeti još detalja i dapače uključiti ih u brojanje ili dati im izbor gdje da parkirate auto. Uključivanje djeteta u ovakve aktivnosti daje im pouzdanje i kontrolu koja im je vrlo potrebna.

Kada dođete unutar trgovačkog centra, uzmite vremena da svom nervoznom djetetu obratite pozornost na to što je oko njega, ono će se tako opet osjećati bolje i imat će kontrolu. Ako je Vaše dijete malo, možete ga podići i komentirati što sve vidite; svijetla, kafiće, ukrase, čujete glazbu u pozadini, vidite dućane, kolica, ljude itd. Dajte mu minutu, dvije da spozna te stvari oko sebe. Kada vidite da je u redu, nastavite sa svojim planom. Vjerojatno idući put nećete morati prolaziti kroz ovu situaciju, ali ako ćete morati i to je u redu. Samo dajte djetetu vremena. Ako niste u mogućnosti izdvojiti to vrijeme ili krenuti u centar ranije, a budimo realni, često smo u velikoj gužvi, radije ostavite dijete s nekim drugim nego da ga bespotrebno “vučete” na mjesto gdje se ono ne osjeća ugodno.

Danas većinom svi trgovački centri imaju dječje igraonice gdje se djeca mogu igrati dok odrasli obavljaju svoje kupovine. Neke imaju pravila o ostavljanju djeteta samim u igraonici, neke se plaćaju, neke su besplatne, ali su svakako odličan izvor senzornih podražaja. Veće igraonice imaju i sprave za penjanje, bazene s lopticama, tobogane i tunele. Iskoristite to! Provjerite najprije je li Vaše dijete preosjetljivo na zvukove. Ako je, izaberite trenutak kada je u igraonici manje glasne djece. Jednako vrijedi i za djecu koja su prekomjerno vizualno osjetljiva na micajuće podražaje. Ako mnogo djece trči oko Vašeg djeteta, ono se može “zalediti” i ne uživati na ovako zabavnom mjestu. Ja bih najprije izabrala sprave i aktivnosti koje dijete poznaje dok ne spozna prostor, ljude oko sebe i svoje mogućnosti u tom prostoru. Kada Vam se čini da je dijete u redu, možete predložiti nove aktivnosti s kojima inaće ne bi bilo oduševljeno. Polako i postepeno. Najbolje je dati djetetu da odluči i napravi aktivnost prvo koristeći svoju kreativnost i motoričko planiranje, ali ako Vaše dijete treba dodatni poticaj, možete i Vi to učiniti prvi.

Girl in a tunnel. Permission acquired from the parents.
Girl in a tunnel. Permission acquired from the parents.

Ako nemate vremena za igraonicu ili ju Vaš trgovački centar ne nudi, pokušajte uključiti svoje dijete u poslove koje morate obaviti. Djeca koja trebaju dodatni ravnotežni podražaj će se voliti voziti u shopping kolicima u dućanu i na taj način može stavljati namirnice i proizvode u kolica. Dajte djetetu da izabere između dva ili tri proizvoda koja se tiću njega: koji sok ili koje pahuljice kupiti. Ali, ograničite izbor na dva ili tri artikla pogotovo za manju djecu ili ona koja još nisu verbalna.

Ako Vaše dijete voli brzo izmijenjivati aktivnosti, pokušajte brže završiti Vašu kupovinu da ne podražujete dijete prekomjerno. Ne morate odmah napustiti dućan, možete malo pokušati produljiti vrijeme izlaganju, ali nemojte pretjerivati. Vidjet ćete znakove na djetetu kada mu je dosta; odbija suradnju, izgleda kao da mu je dosadno ili da je umorno, vuče se po podu, moli vas da odete doma pa sve do bacanja po podu dućana. Neka djeca pređu ovaj spektar znakova vrlo brzo, dok neka odmah pređu na plakanje. Sigurna sam da poznavajući vlastito dijete znate što je najbolje za napraviti u toj situaciji, otići ili ostati u dućnu – ali ispravnu stvar nije uvijek lako i moguće napraviti, znam!